It Can Be a Bumpy Road

Throughout our careers, with whatever success we may or may not find, we will inevitably come across those who wish us ill in our endeavors.

It sadly happens in every industry. Entertainment is no different.

The people closest to you may be the one's wishing for your downfall.

Disclaimer: Now if you are a cut-throat, pompous person that hurts others or causes dischord to get your way or make yourself look better, this blog is not for you. Whatever ill befalls you, you've likely earned. Change your ways.

For the rest of you,

As friends and colleagues we need to remind ourselves to celebrate each other's successes.

It's easy to get bummed over the audition that you thought you really had to watch someone you think is all wrong for the role get the part. Again.

Many times the successes of others won't involve you. They often can't. And trust me, your friends don't mean anything by it.

We have no idea what demons they are facing or what trials they have been through to reach that success.

Entertainers aren't all looking to be celebrated. Some just want to be acknowledged.

And the damage done comes from so many cracks and slithers. A snide comment from a coworker. A condescending remark from an associate. A warning from a, hopefully, well meaning friend.

Sometimes it feels like the applause from the audience, or a good review might be all that's holding you together at times.

But these little pieces chip away at you, little by little. Scraping at your resolve, making you rise just a little bit slower the next time you're knocked down.

Or to find out a friend or a loved one is envious of your accomplishment, whatever it might be, can really knock the wind out of your sails. At times you feel like you can't breathe for all the pressure.

And it hits us all. (Just look at Joss Whedon and the break he needed to take after Avengers 2)

I'm sorry for that. Unfortunately it's part of the territory. Family members have sued each other. Friends stopped speaking to each other.

I know of no cure for this. There's no way to make sure it never happens. Save to check in with ourselves and make sure we aren't doing it to others.

You just have to focus on the positive. Meditate and let the static subside as necessary.

Also, stay humble in your journey.

I hope the best for your endeavors. Whatever they might be. Go and be wonderful.